with persecutions, with difficulties—2 Corinthians 12:10
We men are often just wrong about failure. It seems we’ve all decided that if we ever experience failure, we're then failures. It’s not true. Failure is integral to human life, the way God designed it. Look at Abraham, Jacob, Moses, David, Peter—all experienced failure, because they were mere humans. Mere humans fail every so often . . . and it’s good that we do.
Failure refines us. We mature through failures because we learn from them—much more than from successes. Through failures our character is formed (Romans 5:3-5). No man can become who he’s supposed to become without experiencing some failure in his life. Failure also fuels us . . . or, rather, the potential for failure. While we may not like failure, we like to face its potential. We like to be tested. It’s why we like sports . . . or any competition, really. It’s often the excitement of uncertain outcomes that actually drives us to learn from failures and improve, in the hope of avoiding more. But the potential for failure must be real. When it is, though, we will actually sometimes fail.
The danger, of course, is in getting stuck—in the shame of failures past or the fear of failures future . . . or maybe both. When we do, failure defeats us: we live dull lives, devoid of daring. But, we need not get stuck. We can, instead, reject the shame of failure and learn to deal with it—by acknowledging fault; confessing and repenting (if sin was involved); facing any consequences; allowing God to teach us what we need to learn . . . and then moving on.
Okay, so what do we do?
What are one or two big risks you’d like to take this new year?
Write them down, commit to them, and tell some friends about them—so they can motivate you and keep you accountable.
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