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The Bible:  "It's only for church....not school!"

2/5/2014

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DEARBORN HEIGHTS, Mich. – A mother in the Detroit area is alleging that school officials told her 8-year-old autistic son to stop bringing his Bible to class.

Jessica Cross of Dearborn Heights told WJBK that her autistic son, Jason, would frequently take his Bible to Highview Elementary. According to his mother, Jason enjoyed reading his Bible during free times at school.

However, as reported by WJBK, school officials reprimanded Jason for bringing the Bible to school, telling him, “it’s only for church—not school.” Jason was then told not to bring his Bible to class anymore.

Cross said that she was shocked by the school’s censure of her son’s Bible, but told reporters that it was not the first time she has been disappointed with how school officials have treated Jason.

“Putting my son in time outs for 13 hours a week and refusing him lunch, and just absurd things,” she stated. “If I did something like that, I’d lose my kids!”

Cross has repeatedly met with school officials in recent months to discuss their treatment of her son, but she claims that officials have not been helpful.

“We’ve done meetings. We’ve met together, and whenever we all get in the same room together, then they just lie,” Cross says.

According to Highview Elementary’s Code of Conduct manual, discrimination on the basis of religion is unacceptable.

“[I]t is the policy of [the school district],” the manual states, “that no person shall, on the basis of race, color, religion, national origin or ancestry, age, gender, martial [sic] status, disability, or limited English proficiency be discriminated against, excluded from participation in, denied the benefits of, or otherwise subjected to, discrimination in any program, activity, [or] service.”

This is not the first time public schools in the Detroit area have drawn criticism for controversial handling of religious activities. In 2009, school officials in nearby Roseville heeded the advice of an Islamic advocacy group by forbidding the distribution of Bible study permission slips to students.

But as previously reported, Dearborn Public Schools announced last year that Muslim students would be allowed private prayer times during school hours and weekly unexcused absences to observe Friday prayers.

“So Muslims can conduct religious activities within a public school,” one education expert weighed in, “but Christians can’t go off-site to receive voluntary Bible lessons? What’s wrong with this picture? Is political correctness accommodating such hypocrisy?”

Following a public furor over Highview Elementary’s treatment of Jason’s Bible, the school district superintendent, Dr. Laurine VanValkenburg, told reporters that she understands Cross’s frustration and promised to not ban Bible reading again.

“If a child wants to bring a Bible to school, they may,” she said.

However, despite the superintendent’s statement, many still argued that the school’s handling of the situation was outrageous.

“That crosses the line when they tell you what you or your child can or can’t read,” one commenter stated.

“I remember being in public high school and the Bible as literature was offered as a class,” another recalled. “So much for it being ‘for church and not for school.’ It looks like this autistic student is able to read above his grade level if he’s reading the Bible, and his teacher isn’t encouraging him.”



This post was written by Garrett Haley.  The original post can be found here:  http://christiannews.net/2014/01/27/school-officials-tell-8-year-old-to-not-bring-bible-to-class-its-only-for-church-not-school/

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Encouraging children decreases misbehavior

1/24/2014

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Where did we ever get the crazy idea that the way to make a child "do" better is to first make him or her "feel worse"? That is the premise of punishment; and it is truly crazy. Think of the last time you felt scolded and humiliated by another adult. Were you thinking, "This is so helpful. I really appreciate it. I will now do so much better, and I can hardly wait to consult you will all my problems." Unlikely. The truth is that children (and adults) do better when they feel better. 

A theme of Adlerian psychology is that a misbehaving child is a discouraged child. The most powerful motivation for change is encouragement. If a child—or adult—misbehaves out of discouragement, it follows that the motive for misbehavior is removed when he or she feels encouraged. 

Many years ago I decided to test this theory. My two-year-old son had been whining and I was so annoyed I felt like spanking him. Instead, remembering the concept of encouragement, I knelt down, gave him a hug, and told him how much I loved him. Not only did he stop whining and crying, but my annoyance magically disappeared. 

If a child came up to you and innocently said, "I am a child, and I just want to belong," could you get angry and put that child down in any way? Of course not! What most adults don’t realize is that any child who is misbehaving is subconsciously saying, "I just want to belong, and I have some mistaken ideas about how to accomplish belonging." It takes courage from an adult to recognize the discouragement in a child and to respond with encouragement instead of more discouragement. It is much easier to "react" to the misbehavior with more misbehavior of our own. 

Much of what takes place in homes and classrooms, though intended to encourage, does not foster courage. Adults attempt to motivate change through punishment and reward. Positive results are temporary and usually involve a heavy dose of discouragement. Children may do better to avoid the punishment or to gain the reward, but the price they pay is the loss of an inner locus of control, the loss of self-confidence, and the loss of opportunities to learn life skills. 

Dreikurs emphasized encouragement and taught that it is the most important skill adults can learn in helping children. He said many times, "Children need encouragement, just as plants need water. They cannot survive without it." 

The root word of encouragement is, of course, courage. When we strive to encourage others and ourselves, we are actually helping to develop courage to face life’s challenges and difficulties. Encouragement comes in many forms. Each of the many positive discipline tools is designed to help children feel better (encouraged), so they are motivated to do better.


This post was written by J Nelsen.  For the original post, go to:  http://blog.positivediscipline.com/2014/01/a-misbehaving-child-is-discouraged-child.html


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The God of Elijah - Part one

9/18/2013

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On January 9th, we were outside preaching.  Brother Wu with some others were in one part of the village and suddenly asked publicly:  "Why will none of you believe?"  Someone in the crowd replied at once, "What have a god -- one god -- Ta-wang (Great King), and he has never failed us.  He is an effective god."  

"How do you know you can trust him?" asked Wu.  "We have held his festival procession every January for 286 years.  The chosen day is revealed by divination beforehand, and every year without fail, his day is a perfect one without rain or cloud," was the reply.  "When is the procession this year?"  "It is fixed for January 11th at eight in the morning."  "Then," said brother Wu impetuously, "I promise you that it will certainly rain on the 11th."  At once there was an outburst of cries from the crowd:  "That is enough!  We don't want to hear anymore preaching.  IF there is rain on the 11th, then your God is God!"

I was elsewhere in the village when this occurred.  As soon as I heard of it, I saw that it was most serious.  The news had spread like wildfire, and before long, over 20,000 people would know about it.  What were we to do?  We stopped our preaching at once, and gave ourselves to prayer.  We asked the Lord to forgive us if we had overstepped ourselves.  I tell you, we were in deadly earnest.  What had we done?  Had we made a terrible mistake, or dare we ask God for a miracle?

The more you want an answer to prayer from God, the more you desire to be clear with Him.  There must be not doubt about fellowship--no shadow between.  If your faith were in coincidence you could afford to have a controversy with Him, but not otherwise.  We did not mind being thrown out if we had done something wrong.  After all, you can't drag God into a thing that is against His will!  But, we reflected, this would mean an end to the Gospel testimony in this island, and Ta-wang would reign supreme forever.  What should we do?  Should we leave now?  

Up to this point, we had feared to pray for rain.  Then like a flash, there came the word to me:  "Where is the God of Elijah?"  It came with such clarity and power that I knew that it was from God.  Confidently, I announced to the brothers, "I have an answer.  The Lord will send rain on the 11th."  Together we thanked Him, and then, full of praise, we went out--all seven of us--and told everyone.  We could accept the devil's challenge in the name of the Lord, and we would broadcast our acceptance.

As we went to our evening prayer, we all began once more to pray for rain -- now!  That it was that there came to us a stern rebuke from the Lord:  "Where is the God of Elijah?"  Were we going to fight our way thru this battle, or were we going to rest in the finished victory of Christ?  What had Elisha done when he spoke those words?  He had laid claim in his own personal experience to the very miracle that that his lord Elijah, now in the glory, had himself performed.  In New Testament terms, he had taken his stand by faith on the ground of a finished work.

We confessed our sins again.  "Lord," we said, "we don't need rain until the 11th morning."  We went to bed and the next morning (the 10th) we set off for a neighboring island for a day's preaching.  The Lord was very gracious, and that day three families turned to Him, confessing Him publicly and burning their idols.  We returned late, tired out but rejoicing.  We could afford to sleep late tomorrow.


This is an excerpt from the book, SIT, WALK, STAND by Watchman Nee.  Tomorrow, we will see the result of Brother Wu's bold faith in the God of Elijah.


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Why going to church is bad for you

5/21/2013

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Men who struggle with sexual temptation are especially vulnerable at church.  One would think that church would be the one place a man could be safe and free from temptation.  Not so.  As the weather is warming, people are wearing more comfortable clothing.  Some of that clothing is fairly revealing, even in the church.

I was a camp counselor and we were having a great worship time with our preteen campers.  However, up front, two backup singers (they were camp counselors as well) were helping the worship leader by moving in time with the music (some people would call it choreography, others would call it dancing).  With their movement, certain body parts were also moving and it was very noticeable.  Being a normal  man, I was distracted from my worship by such movement.  Afterwards, I overheard a couple of the preteens boys in a discussion about how these two women looked.  It was obvious that I wasn't the only male that was stimulated...

Men whom I have counseled have told me similar stories.  They become stimulated, and some even become triggered by such activity in the church.   Their mind wanders away from worship and often this stimulation leads to physically acting out once they leave church.  Not only do some become triggered by viewing worship leaders but sometimes they also become stimulated by the way that some women dress in the church.  If they attend a church that "hugs," these men may also be triggered by such activity.

These men need the strength that comes with corporate worship but it often backfires for them.

How does a man who is addicted to sexual activity keep himself from becoming triggered when he goes to church?  This is an extremely difficult thing for such men to work thru.  There are no easy answers and it takes real work to follow thru with some of these ideas:

1 - Don't sit up front or where you can see the worship leaders
2 - Or sit close to the front behind a large person who will block your view (that way you won't see the women in the congregation nor the women up front)
3 - Close your eyes when you are singing
4 - Concentrate on the Creator rather than the creation
5 - Come late to the service so that you miss the worship time
6 - Consider going to a church that does not have such stimulating activity
7 - Sit with a male friend who knows of your struggles who will help you stay focused and not let you look around and who will pray for you while in church
8 - Talk to your pastor about your struggles and ask for assistance/ideas 
9 - Join an accountability group and be honest about your thoughts during church and also pray about your mutual struggles.

These ideas are very hard to do and take much prayer, much mental discipline and the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.  

The answer is not to just make sure that women dress correctly. In case you didn't know, in churches that have organs, many have a screen so that you cannot see the organist's feet.  This is done because it used to be too sensual for men to see the organist's naked foot.  So, policing what women in the church wear is not the answer.  

If you are a pastor, worship leader, or someone in a position of authority in your church, I would encourage you to spend some time thinking and praying about your church and what kinds of messages your church may send to people who struggle with sexual sin.    Ask God to give you wisdom so that your church is healthy and not a hindrance.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


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Porn at work

3/19/2013

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A common problem that men have is how to handle it when a coworker has pornography at work.    This is a very touchy issue.  

What do you do when men are gathered around on the work site looking at pictures of naked women?

If a guy doesn't participate, he is "hen-pecked" or "gay" or....  The name calling starts and the accusations fly if a guy isn't "one of the guys."  He's not a "team player."  What's a man to do in these situations?  After all, he has a reputation to protect.

Reputation is the key word in this story.  Reputation is the answer.  Jesus took His reputation and laid it all on the line for us so that we could have strength in times like this.  Jesus could have been satisfied to leave things the way they were and stayed in heaven.  However, He put aside His reputation, His Deity, to become like us.   He risked, knowing that His Father would take care of  His reputation.

Like yesterday's post, honesty is needed.   Asking God for strength to be vulnerable and transparent is how you handle porn at work.  Have the gumption to step up and tell your coworkers why looking at porn is not healthy.  Let them know that there is much more to a woman than just what she does to make a man feel sexual.  

You know what will happen if you take this step?  Like Jesus, you may be crucified.  I don't mean that these guys will string you up and kill you but they will belittle you.  They will tell you that you are not a real man.  They will tease you because they want you to participate in their sinfulness.  

You know what else will happen?  There will always be at least one guy who agrees with you.  He may not publicly, but he will at least come to you privately or at least not join in when the teasing starts.  

If you stick to your integrity and respect women, you will make a statement.  You will only have to say it once.  Your statement will have an impact.  If you never participate with them in objectifying women from that point on, God's Holy Spirit will work on these men.  They will watch you.  So, if you have integrity in everything you do at work, they will see it and they will change.  

Your reputation?  Don't worry about it.  God will protect your reputation if you are doing what He wants.  A real man respects and honors women.  A real man stands up for what is right, even if it means standing alone.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


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Trapped with Porn

3/18/2013

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What do you do when you are placed in a situation where you feel trapped?

I knew a guy who, like many men, had a desire to look at scantily clad, attractive women.   He used to be an avid fan of Playboy magazine but as he grew in his personal relationship with Christ, he came to respect women more and was able to not spend his time obsessing about women as sex objects.   

He had a good childhood friend that lived cross-country and his friend invited him to spend a week with him.  His friend had a small one-bedroom apartment with a very small spare room where his friend kept his book collection.  This man was to sleep in this small spare room during his visit.  As he was laying there, on the couch in this small room, he started to observe the books and magazines that were in this collection.   Some books were classics, some contemporary spy thrillers, and some books about military history.  

Next, his eyes glanced at the magazine collection.  What he didn't know about his friend is that his friend collected Playboy magazines.  He had almost every issue over the previous 10 years.  They were catalogued and displayed quite prominently.  As he lay there trying to sleep, his mind kept wandering back to the Playboy collection that was within his reach.  His mind thought back to the images that were in his mind from his previous experience with Playboy.   His heart was pounding in his ears and his mind said, "it's OK to look at them.  You won't be here but just a few nights.  It's not like they belong to you."

What would you do?  Your character determines how you will handle this situation.  Your true character shows when no one is looking.

How do you handle this?  God promises a way of escape. What is the answer? 

Honesty.   God's strength to be vulnerable and transparent.

Fortunately, this man did the right thing.  He woke his friend up and they had a conversation about Playboy.  Even though his friend didn't think it was a big deal to look at Playboy, his friend took the magazines out of the room and put them in his own bedroom.  

This man kept his integrity.  He stayed away from sinful behavior.  

Is his friend still collecting Playboy magazines?   I dunno.  

But his friend now knows that not all men think that looking at porn is acceptable.    Maybe nobody ever told him that before...

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BE A MAN.


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Temptation:  Looking Ahead

2/22/2013

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There is an important principle in handling temptation.   Did you know that many times, you can anticipate temptation?  

Look at the picture of this mountain path and I will try and describe this principle to you.  Imagine yourself at the bottom of this mountain and you want to reach the top.  The path circles around the mountain, rather circuitously and over time, you get to where you know this mountain fairly well. You know that when you get to the east side of the mountain, the drop is shear and the side is craggy and the path is treacherous.  Fortunately, for you, the path has rails (like in the picture) that help you stay steady.  On the north face of the mountain, the wind is very brisk, you almost feel like you will be blown off the path.  On the west side, the path is lush and covered with trees that shield you from the rain and sun.  On the south side, it is stark and barren and the sun or the rain beats down upon you miserably.  

You know pretty much what's coming ahead because you have been there before.  So you continue on your journey in anticipation.  You know that you need support when you come to the slippery east side.  You know that you need to grab trees and use your walking cane on the windy north side.  You know that you can take it easy and enjoy yourself on the west side.  You know that you need to apply protection to prevent sunburn on the south side.  

Usually, as you traverse up a mountain, it takes less time to go around it because it is usually smaller the further up you go.  Just like temptation, the more you prepare for it and the more times you say no to temptation, the easier the path.

Do you have the picture?  Do you get what I am saying?

Think of this path as your life.  You can pretty much predict what will happen if you go certain places.  If you have to go someplace treacherous, get some support.  Take someone with you, be accountable when you go there.  If you find yourself in a place that can blow you off your feet, look for trees and walking canes that you can grab onto.  If you are in the heat and need to apply SONSCREEN, ask God for His protection.   

This is the principle to handling temptation:  Anticipate, think, plan, pray.  Use your brain.  Trust the Holy Spirit's guidance.  

You can't use the excuse, "I just couldn't help myself, after all I'm only human."   
God gave you a brain, you're not stupid.  
You're not an animal that just reacts.  


You can think and plan ahead...

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BE A MAN.

My thanks to Tom Eisenman for this concept.


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Iron Mike Tyson inspired parenting

11/5/2012

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Iron Mike Tyson is one of the most iconic, controversial—and also most jacked-up—sports figures of all time. And I absolutely loved watching him fight. He had the unprecedented power to knock his opponent out with just one punch. He would send you crying to mama in the first forty-five seconds of round one. And if you weren’t careful…he just might spit in your face and go to town gnawing on your ear! (Just ask Evander Holyfield.) 

Even though Iron Mike was unquestionably messed up, I couldn’t help loving him as a fighter and an athlete. Because no matter what else you could say about him, he genuinely had that “Eye of the Tiger.” The dude just loved to hit, scrap, punch you in the face, bite, trash talk, kick your booty, fight—and win! He simply stubbornly refused to lose. 

Hey parents, listen up: We need more Iron Mike Tysons in this world. 

Oh, you read that right. What I mean is we need parents who are willing to hit, scrap, punch, bite, and fight for their kids! (Of course, I don’t mean you should hit your kids.) 

But here’s who you should hit: the enemy who’s bent on stealing, killing, and destroying our families. And it’s totally gloves off with that punk. It’s Rumble in the Jungle, Thrilla in Manila, Sting in the Ring, Fight of the Century, all-out war! 

But instead of Iron Mike Tyson parenting, what we’re surrounded with today is lazy, apathetic, exhausted, busy, workaholic, God-dodging, materialistic parenting. Mom and Dad, it’s time you turn off that phone. Stuff that To-Do list in a drawer. Turn off the TV. Get your butt up off that couch. Lace up your boxing gloves… And FIGHT for your kids. 

Five Things Every Parent Needs to Fight for for Their Kids: 

1. Time. James 4:13–14 says, “How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone.” Make time for your kids today. Nobody’s promising you a tomorrow with them. 

2. Purity. Did you know that the largest audience for Internet porn is kids aged twelve to seventeen years old? Understand this: Satan has a dream, a vision, and a coordinated plan to take your kids out. He wants them checking out porn, keeping secrets, rounding second base and sliding into third, plunging headlong into promiscuity! Parents, please… dig deep and find the guts to FIGHT for your kids’ purity! 

3. Marriage. Is your marriage on life support? Are you at that point where the doc should just come in and pull the plug? Have you been secretly dreaming about some other person besides your spouse? Have you been having an emotional affair? What about a full-on sexual one? Then let me tell you what happens next: Fight for your  marriage! Or risk losing it all—including your kids. It really is just that simple. Sure, it’s tough. I get it. Things are jacked up. I get that maybe you’re not “feeling it” anymore. But one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids is modeling for them how to have a healthy, vibrant, passionate love affair—with your spouse! 

4. History. So, what’s your deal? Are you a yeller? Does your anger cause your kids to walk on eggshells around you? Are you a workaholic? Spiritually passive? Porn addict? Critical heart? You know that’s not who you want to be. So why are you still keeping that old man around? Kick him to the curb! Find out what it really means to be in Christ, and to have Him in you. You CAN change the pattern of history that has so far defined your life. Write the legacy that your kids deserve. But here’s the thing: You’re going to have to get bloody knuckles to make it happen. FIGHT! 

5. The Obvious. Fight to keep Jesus in the center of your family. The only thing trying to stop you is the whole world. Don’t let it. Push back. When the cares of this world try to start a fistfight with your family, you pull a knife. When they pull a knife, you pull a gun. Fight! Every day of your life, as soon as you get up, strap on your armor. (See Ephesians 6:10–18 to learn how.) Read God’s Word together, pray together, go to church together, talk about Jesus on the way to school, when you get up and before you go to bed. It's time to RE-UP.  Recommit to making Jesus the centerpiece of your life.

This post was taken from the booklet Sex, Lust and XXX:  Fighting for your kids' purity in a sex saturated world. 

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BE A MAN.

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Actively engage in community 

10/12/2012

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When Paul says we are to “walk in the Spirit” he is writing to a church community, not just to random individuals reading his letter in their private corners. Keeping in step with the Spirit of God is a community activity, something we do together. 

 During anti-porn week, we identified from secular research what viewing porn does to a person.   This week presents practical advice of how to stay away from the influence of porn.

In other words, we keep in step with the Spirit by keeping in step with one another. We must live lifestyles of encouragement and accountability. 

Nothing slays the power of sin like confession. James writes, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed” (James 5:16). In confessing our sins to God we are promised forgiveness. In confessing sin to others we are made whole. 

Sin must be habitually exposed to the light of confession. This is called accountability: being honest with another trusted believer about our temptations, sins, and the state of our heart. Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, after eating of the forbidden fruit, our knee-jerk reaction is to hide—to hide from God and from one another. Accountability is the willingness to habitually and regularly allow others access to your heart, your motives, your secret desires, your dark thoughts, and, of course, your sinful actions. 

How does this relate to pornography? The late psychologist, Dr. Al Cooper, believed three main factors draw people into online sexual activity:

1. Accessibility (porn is accessible easily from any Internet connection) 

2. Affordability (millions of free or very cheap images are available online) 

3. Anonymity (home computers and Smartphones have made it very easy to be secretive) 

He dubbed this the “Triple-A Engine” of Internet porn. 

These three factors work like three legs on a stool: remove just one of the legs and the stool will fall (or at least make it awkward to sit on).

The easiest leg to remove is the leg of  anonymity, or secrecy. We do this by becoming accountable to others about the time we spend online, taking away the option to hide our Internet activity. 

One way to do this is through the use of Covenant Eyes Internet Accountability. This software program monitors your home computer, work computer, or smartphone and then sends a detailed report of your Internet activity to a trusted friend, spouse, or mentor. Covenant Eyes, which pioneered this concept, also rates websites for mature content, flagging specific web searches and sites. 

Confession of sin is not the only goal of Christian community. In the face of each other’s weaknesses, we need to encourage one another to fight sin. The author of Hebrews says, “let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Heb. 10:24-25). 

This can be called “responsive accountability.” When we give an account of our sins to someone else, in return, they should listen and then give an account of God’s gospel promises to us. 

In this text, God calls us to “stir up” one another—that is, to urge, to spur on, to provoke, to motivate each other—to love and good deeds. Each time we meet together we should be contemplating and praying, “God, show me how I can really motivate my friend to resist temptation and instead love You and others wholeheartedly.” We are to have a hardcore intentionality and thoughtfulness in our friendships. 

Like the embers of a red-hot fire, we stir up the fire not by adding heat to it, but rather by exposing the glowing embers to the air, helping to bring out of the embers the energy that is in them already. If the Spirit of God is in us, He has already planted His holy desires into our hearts. He has etched his law on our hearts (Jer. 31:33-34; Ez. 36:25-27). But He has also placed us in the family of the church, among trusted friends who are also filled with His Spirit, in order that we might stir up in each other what God has already put in us.

This post is taken from the booklet, YOUR BRAIN ON PORN by Luke Gilkerson.  The booklet can be found at:  http://www.covenanteyes.com/brain-ebook/

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BE A MAN.

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Actively obey the word 

10/11/2012

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When Paul writes, “keep in step with the Spirit,” the word he uses is the same as that of an army marching in line, a platoon following their marching orders. Lest we think keeping in step with the Spirit is a purely mystical experience, Paul says it is very practical. Keeping in step with the Spirit means obeying His clearly revealed orders. 

During anti-porn week, we identified from secular research what viewing porn does to a person.  

This week presents practical advice of how to stay away from the influence of porn.

We cannot claim to keep in step with God’s Spirit if we ignore or disobey the writings He inspired—the Scriptures. Through the Bible, the Holy Spirit speaks clear words to the church. Growing up in a Jewish context, Paul understood this. He knew all the writings of the prophets were “breathed out by God” (2 Tim. 3:16). No less than 32 times in Paul’s letters he uses the phrase “it is written,” pointing to the writings of the prophets who came before him. Paul also knew the Spirit was inspiring him and his fellow apostles (Eph. 3:5). “For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction,” Paul says, “that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope” (Rom. 15:4). 

To keep in step with the Spirit we must know and obey the Book He inspired. We must explore the Bible and learn what God thinks. We must renew our minds with His thoughts. 

Take, for instance, the five main ways pornography warps the mind. Exploring the Bible, we can “reverse engineer” the bad training pornography has given us and replace it with God’s thoughts. 

1. God is the creator of sexual satisfaction and has designed marriage, not pornographic fantasy, for its enjoyment (Song of Sg. 4:9-16; 1 Thess. 4:1-8). 

2. God has defined good sex as an expression of “oneness,” not emotional detachment (Gen. 2:24). 

3. God has created women in His image. They are not sexual commodities but are worthy of great honor (Gen. 1:27; 1 Pet. 3:7). 

4. God has designed sex as an expression of affection, not aggression (Deut. 22:25; Eph. 5:28-30). 

5. God redeems our fallen sex drive so sex is an act of love and giving, not selfishness (1 Cor. 13:4-7; Gal. 5:22-23). 

Each of these ideas is only a seed, but the more the mind engages with the Bible around these truths, the more our thoughts are renovated. Over time our minds will be rewired to see things God’s way. As we do this we are “sowing to the Spirit” and in time will reap a harvest of eternal life (Gal. 6:8). 

Tomorrow, we discuss the power of community.

This post is taken from the booklet, YOUR BRAIN ON PORN by Luke Gilkerson.  The booklet can be found at:  http://www.covenanteyes.com/brain-ebook/


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