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Now hiring a royal carriage driver! (a tale on temptation)

6/24/2015

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Once upon a time there was a king.  He was a very good king and a very wise king.  He was well-loved by the people of his kingdom.  Everywhere he went, he was welcomed by the people of his kingdom.  It was a perfect kingdom.  Peace ruled this kingdom.  There was very little crime and this king ruled with grace, love and compassion...


The king had a very important job that he wanted filled in his kingdom.  So, he had flyers passed throughout, delivered by town couriers.  The flyers read, "Now hiring a royal carriage driver!  Please apply to the king."  The king was so loved, that there were many, many people who wanted to drive the royal carriage.  They thought, "to be able to drive the king!  How I would love to care for my king!"   


The king interviewed many people and finally narrowed his choices down to three drivers.  He called them in for a second interview.  This was the interview that would end in getting the job.   


The king started out this group interview with this statement....  "As you know I have a daughter, my only daughter, the princess.  She is the love of my life.  I don't want anything bad happening to her.  She has a friend on the far side of the kingdom that she likes to visit frequently.  I need someone I can completely trust to take her there."  


Each carriage driver said, "I'm you're man king.  I am trustworthy.  I am safe.  I am an excellent carriage driver."  


The king continued, "On the route between our mansion and her friends's house is a deep ravine.  I'm worried about how a driver may handle the carriage alongside this ravine.  I don't want the carriage sliding off and losing my daughter to death."


Further, the king stated, "Now I have a question I want to ask you three men... How close can you safely get to the edge of that ravine?"  


The first carriage driver proudly stated, "I can do that safely, O king!  I have won many carriage races.  I can drive her there quickly and safely.  I could get her within one yard of the edge of that ravine."


The second carriage driver proudly countered, "I have never had an accident, O king!  I have been driving carriages since I was a young boy.  I could get her within one foot of the edge of that ravine!"


The third carriage driver, with fear and humility in his voice stated, "O king, I have had several accidents.  And I have learned from each one of them.  Once I had an accident because I was traveling too fast.  Another time I had an accident on that same ravine that you are speaking.  Since, I have learned to slow down and stay away from the edge of that ravine.  If I was your royal carriage driver entrusted with your daughter, I would stay as far from the edge of that ravine that I can.  I would slow the horses down and we would carefully & safely go past that ravine."


The king dismissed his three applicants.  As they were waiting for the king to make his decision, the first and second applicants were called to him.  The king told them, "Thank you for applying to be my carriage driver.  However, I cannot entrust my daughter to either of you.  I'm not interested in speed or how close to the edge you can come.  I am interested in my daughter's safety.  You are not ready to be my royal carriage driver."


The third applicant was then ushered in...  The king told him, "Thank you for applying to be my daughter's carriage driver.  You are exactly the man I have been searching for!  You have experience.  You have had accidents.  Moreover, you learned from your accidents.  You have learned an important principle that I have tried to teach in my kingdom.  I'm neither interested in speed nor how close you can come to the edge of the ravine.  I want a driver who will transport my daughter safely.  I don't want a driver who is willing to risk my daughter's life.  She is the most important person to me in my kingdom.  I want her to experience a life of security and safety."


What does this tale tell us about temptation?  


Temptation is nothing to be flirted with.  It is nothing to be toyed with.  Temptation needs to be avoided.  Don't even get close to the edge...


BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.

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Handling temptation Jesus' way

8/1/2014

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Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil.  After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry.  The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”

Jesus answered, “It is written:  ‘People do not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”

Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple.  “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down.  For it is written:

“‘He will command his angels concerning you,

and they will lift you up in their hands,

so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’”

Jesus answered him, “It is also written:  ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’”

Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor.  “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”

Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan!  For it is written:  ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’”

Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.  



Read Matthew 4:1-11 for this story

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Here the Son stands alone, embattled in the wilderness.  There are no disciples yet—at least not with him—and all communities are left behind.  He stands before the Tempter without human companionship.

There is a time for such trials.  We seek, in this season, to celebrate friendship, the Kingdom community, but we do not thereby ignore necessary solitudes.  There are times we stand naked before God, and there are other times we stand naked before Satan; even our Jesus followed Moses and Elijah and John into the empty wilderness.  But even our Jesus needed restoration to community; “angels came and attended him.”

PRAYER

Eternal God, we have been led by the Spirit to places unfamiliar, to wildernesses barren, to areas uncomfortable and frightening.  We are surrounded by temptations; we are hungry; we thirst.  We have wondered if truly the Spirit led us, or if it was the devil.  Meet us in our desert, we pray, and strengthen us to overcome every sinful craving and temptation, through the power of your Word and the guidance of the Spirit.  


Amen.


This post is from Seedbed.  The original post can be found here:  http://blogs.asburyseminary.edu/asbury-reader/2012/09/13/the-temptation/


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Predicting temptation

7/31/2014

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There is an important principle in handling temptation.   Did you know that many times, you can anticipate temptation?  

Look at the picture of this mountain path and I will try and describe this principle to you.  Imagine yourself at the bottom of this mountain and you want to reach the top.  The path circles around the mountain, rather circuitously and over time, you get to where you know this mountain fairly well. You know that when you get to the east side of the mountain, the drop is shear and the side is craggy and the path is treacherous.  Fortunately, for you, the path has rails (like in the picture) that help you stay steady.  On the north face of the mountain, the wind is very brisk, you almost feel like you will be blown off the path.  On the west side, the path is lush and covered with trees that shield you from the rain and sun.  On the south side, it is stark and barren and the sun or the rain beats down upon you miserably.  

You know pretty much what's coming ahead because you have been there before.  So you continue on your journey in anticipation.  You know that you need support when you come to the slippery east side.  You know that you need to grab trees and use your walking cane on the windy north side.  You know that you can take it easy and enjoy yourself on the west side.  You know that you need to apply protection to prevent sunburn on the south side.  

Usually, as you traverse up a mountain, it takes less time to go around it because it is usually smaller the further up you go.  Just like temptation, the more you prepare for it and the more times you say no to temptation, the easier the path.

Do you have the picture?  Do you get what I am saying?

Think of this path as your life.  You can pretty much predict what will happen if you go certain places.  If you have to go someplace treacherous, get some support.  Take someone with you, be accountable when you go there.  If you find yourself in a place that can blow you off your feet, look for trees and walking canes that you can grab onto.  If you are in the heat and need to apply SONSCREEN, ask God for His protection.   

This is the principle to handling temptation:  Anticipate, think, plan, pray.  Use your brain.  Trust the Holy Spirit's guidance.  

You can't use the excuse, "I just couldn't help myself, after all I'm only human."   God gave you a brain, you're not stupid.  You're not an animal that just reacts.  You can think and plan ahead...

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


My thanks to Tom Eisenman for this concept.

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Temptation:  Hard to Resist

7/30/2014

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The weight, thrust and speed of a plane at a specific moment during take off necessitates a point of no return, no time to pull up or abort the take off, it must continue regardless of what is in front of them.  Ever had that feeling as you sit in front of the computer screen?

I think we all recognise the process of taking off into the soul destroying world of pornography, the taxi onto the run way, the slow process of picking up speed and that moment of no return.  I have found that I am not strong enough to abort the take off once I am on the runway, the key is to discover the triggers that propel me to even get into the plane.  Having mechanisms such as the great software at xxxchurch helps to abort the take off but doesn't stop the triggers from instigating my hearts journey into pornography.

Sometimes these triggers are easier to spot than others, having a really crap day, everybody has unloaded and dumped their waste on me or just times of undue stress will get me looking for a quick release, I now recognise this and am able to instigate a pre determined process of accountability and strategies of distance from computers etc.

The problem really comes to the fore when multiple triggers happen all at once with my largest trigger being 'aloneness' coupled with stress, depression or even euphoria over a successful 'event'.  As I write this my wife is on a plane to the other end of the country for five days during which, I have the four kids (3yrs to 11yrs), childcare, school, work, an end off year bible college assignment due, a blog to write, my two monthly tax to complete a men's event and just to top it off my wife and I have not had sex for at least a week (just keepin it real).  I tell you the odds are stacked, my boarding pass to late night destruction is all but purchased, am I worried? Yep!  So I have instigated some rules, I have recognised triggers, I am planned but all it takes is for one more thing, that left field attack and all laid plans could be out the window.

So what do I do, I have safety nets, I recognise triggers but its still going to be a tough week and i am going to need something extra.  I cannot stress enough the love and power available in Christ.  I have done all I can, in my own strength, so to not get to the point of no return but my heart is cunning, deceptive and somewhat selfish on its own and a continual leaning into Jesus, the lover of my soul, will be required.  What does that mean?  It means that I am more like the tax collectors, Gentiles, non believers that Jesus came to be a great physician to and He enjoys being invited into my home and on top of the accountability team, the software, the rules around computer use I also have the God of the universe in my corner, cheering for me, providing the vision of wholeness, and giving strength when mine runs out.  I just need to lean into Him when all the guns are pointing in my direction with triggers just waiting to go off.  It is a partnership that I am reliant on, a partnership that requires me to do my part but also one that requires me to lean into Him.

Do not leave out the greatest power, strength and love that can be offered, Jesus desires for you and me to be whole and as we spend time in His word, in prayer, and just sitting in His presence we have something completely 'other' that we can call upon when the triggers to destruction start taking over.

This post was written by Jason Baird of XXX Church.  You can find the original post with comments here:  http://www.xxxchurch.com/men/what-do-i-do-when-temptation-is-getting-hard-to-resist.html


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Walking down that street

7/29/2014

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We were visiting Amsterdam, exploring shops and the canals.  At one shop on the canal there were the most beautiful flowers you have ever seen.  It was a wonderful day. Everything was perfect.  We were walking hand-in-hand enjoying Amsterdam.  Kinda like two kids at a zoo.  Excitement.  Fun.  Happiness.

The next thing I know, Karyn says, "don't look right."  So, I put my right hand up to block my view.  Then she said, "don't look left."  So, I put up my left hand to block my view.  So, now, I am walking down this street on this beautiful day looking like a horse with blinders.  I said, "what's going on?"  Karyn said, "we've stumbled into the Red Light District."   I dropped my hands and looked around and yep, she was right.  There were some windows with scantily clad women beckoning us to come in.  We promptly turned around and left that street.

You ask, "how in the world didn't you know that you were entering the most famous Red Light District in the world?"  Well, it was still bright out, even though we didn't realize the sun was starting to descend.  If it had been dark, we would have seen the red lights warning us that we had wandered into "adult" territory.  

So, what does this story tell us about temptation?

Well, I was certainly glad that I had my wife with me.  She saw things up ahead that I hadn't noticed.  She loves me and wants to protect our marriage.  So, if you are doing something new, something you have never done before, it would be good to not be alone.  Because you never know what is on that street.

The person you take with you needs to be committed to holiness and purity.  S/he needs to be able to stop you when you start to go somewhere you shouldn't be going.  Because you never know what is on that street.

Temptation sneaks up on you when you least suspect.  We were having a great time.  Exploring Amsterdam, enjoying the sunshine and building memories.  Then, boom!  There it is.  Right in front of you.  Sometimes, we are lulled into complacency or feeling really good and then we are blindsided.  Temptation can come from anywhere.  You know why?

Because you never know what is on that street.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


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How pornographers stalk your kids online

1/17/2014

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Porn is part of your son’s everyday life. He sees it every day on television, in movies, and on computers. The pornography industry is working hard to catch your son’s attention and addict him early in life to their product. The porn industry is a $57-billion-a-year rapidly growing industry—over twice that of McDonalds Corporation. They generate more money than CBS, NBC, and ABC combined, and more than the revenues from professional football, basketball, and baseball combined.

The porn industry spends an incredible amount of money and guile trying to get young people hooked on their product. Because they know that even a glimpse of pornography causes a biological reaction (releases endorphins and adrenaline which causes a “rush”) within the body, they go to great lengths to ensure that children “accidently” catch a glimpse. And once that “rush” happens, it imprints upon the brain a desire for more. For instance, if a child wants to learn about nearly any topic, he can enter it in a website browser and find information. However, if they misspell even just one letter of the word, it can take them to a site that they never intended. Porn distributors do this with nearly all words associated with children and popular topics. If you don’t believe me, just test it out on your computer. Because of those efforts, the largest consumer group of pornography is reported to be young men between the ages of twelve and seventeen

Pornographers consider everyone to fall into one of three categories: targeted, baited, or trapped. They target everyone, even people who aren’t looking—especially young people. They bait people by using the strategy described above, in hopes that once those images have been viewed, either curiosity or a desire for that “high” will lead them again to their site. Since porn is highly addictive, once someone becomes addicted they are trapped in a never-ending cycle.

Tools Used by Pornographers:

Deception
  • Porn-napping: purchasing expired domain names when owners forget to renew and redirecting the expired address to porn sites.
  • Cyber-squatting: using a name that sounds like a legitimate topic. (for example: driverslicense.com instead of driverslicense.org)
  • Misspelling: purposefully buying misspelled domain names for trendy, high-traffic sites.
  • Advertising: using false error messages, alert boxes, and false forms where one click will open a porn site.
 
Entrapment
  • Looping: making a never-ending loop with new porn pages appearing.
  • Mouse-trapping: altering the use of the back and close button so a person is trapped on that site.
  • Start-up alterations: booting up your computer opens a porn site.
  • Cookies: placing small files on your computers hard drive to keep track of every move you make.

The average age young people admit to being exposed to pornography is between eight and eleven years old. Because males are so visual (especially sexually), pornography is almost irresistibly attractive to them. Pornography is so addictive in the male’s mind because it causes a hormone to be released that actually creates a high. It works in the male brain similar to the way cocaine does. This hormone needs greater stimulation and causes the user to need and want more each time it is released. Porn users need bigger prizes, more degrading, more graphic, and more explicit images. The erotic images viewed are cataloged in a males’ mind for further use at a later time. They also cause him to be desensitized toward women and to make unfair and unrealistic comparisons.

Because males are able to compartmentalize sex, it is vitally important for them to understand that the women in porn are victims, even if willing participants. They need to recognize that those women are someone’s daughter and sister and will probably be a wife and mother some day. Many are addicted to drugs, and some are performing against their own will. It is estimated that between 100,000 to 300,000 young women a year in the US are abducted into human trafficking and sexual slavery. I once spoke at a men’s conference where one of the other presenters was a woman who was a former porn star. Her story of how the women in porn movies are abused and victimized was shocking. Her account of the crying and vomiting of women behind the scenes of the movie sets was matched in ferocity only by the universal hatred of men the women possessed.

Pornography is a scourge on the landscape of masculinity. It seems almost irresistible to males because of our visual nature. We are bombarded with sexually graphic images from the time we wake until we go to sleep.  (Just so you know young women are one of the fastest growing demographics watching pornography–statistics show that 17% of all women currently struggle with porn addiction)

So what can parents do to help protect their son? First of all, keep the door of communication open. Talk with him often about the dangers of pornography and the potential for addiction—just like you would with any other drug. Let him know your opinion of pornography. If he respects you, your opinion will make a difference. If you have reason to suspect that he has been viewing pornography, do not over react—approach him with respect. Make sure that you monitor activity on the computers in your home and keep them in an area of heavy traffic. Do not let him have a computer in his bedroom. Use a pre-filtered internet system on your computers (Safe Eyes, Net Nanny, and bsecure are just a few software programs that help block internet porn). Check the history files on your computers often. Dig deep because young people know how to change the history. Check CDs, flash drives, and cell phones regularly. Always maintain access to your son’s online account and randomly check it. Use parental controls on your computers.

This subject is difficult to talk about and difficult to deal with. But it is worth the effort because of the negative lifelong effects it causes. Make this a priority and a battle to fight.


This post was written by Rick Johnson.  For the original post, go to:  http://www.patheos.com/blogs/afewgrownmen/2014/01/pornographers-are-stalking-your-son-and-daughter/

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.

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Holding Apple responsible for pornograpy

7/26/2013

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Chris Sevier, a 36-year-old man from Tennessee, got so addicted to porn videos that his wife took his children and left him. Now he has sued Apple (NASDAQ:AAPL), saying the Cupertino, Calif.-based company failed to install any filter in its devices to prevent his affliction.

In a 50-page complaint, Sevier calls Apple a “silent poisoner” responsible for the proliferation of “arousal addiction, sex trafficking, prostitution, and countless numbers of destroyed lives.” Sevier is seeking damages from Apple, but said he will drop the lawsuit if Apple agrees to sell devices with a “safe mode.”

Sevier claims that his addiction started when he “accidentally” replaced the “a-c-e” in Facebook with a “u-c-k.” Sevier said this F***book site “appealed to his biological sensibilities as a male,” and he started to prefer the images on the screen to his own wife.

“His wife abducted his son and disappeared, which was a subsequent consequence of Apple’s decision to sell its computers not on ‘safe mode,’” Sevier argued, adding that until he got the MacBook, he had never seen porn of any kind or been to a strip club or sex shop. “The Plaintiff became depressed and despondent, unable to work as a result of observing porn on his MacBook and the impact it caused.”

The lengthy description also blames Apple for helping to put old-fashioned sex shops out of business, ignoring the irony of several thousand other words describing the destructive effect porn has on people and societies. Sevier also compared porn, at various points, to cigarettes, weapons, alcohol and cocaine.

Sevier even took some time to remember the good ol' days of America in the 1950s, before things like the Internet and the ACLU created homosexuality, sex trafficking and prostitution. Apple, apparently, is responsible for turning people away from “the unquenchable reality that God is real.”

“Man has a spiritual side to him,” Sevier said. “Porn poisons the spiritual side of man.”

Perhaps the strangest part of the lawsuit comes at the very beginning, where Sevier includes a YouTube link to an edit of Zedd’s “Shave It Up” he made with his electronic music project, Ghost Wars. Sevier said the edit, called “The Demise of Guys,” a reference to a Phillip Zimbardo book, summarizes the facts of the lawsuit. Sevier even requested that Apple employ Zimbardo, a Stanford psychologist, to write the notice consumers are required to read in order to remove the porn filter.

This post was written by Ryan Neal.  For the original post with comments, go to:  http://www.ibtimes.com/apple-sued-porn-addiction-man-says-macbook-cost-his-marriage-kids-1345831#


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The God who is Counselor

6/19/2013

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How do we know that we are not deluding ourselves, that we are not selecting those words that best fit our passions, that we are not just listening to the voice of our own imagination?...Who can determine if [our] feelings and insights are leading [us] in the right direction?

Our God is greater than our own heart and mind, and too easily we are tempted to make our heart’s desires and our mind’s speculations into the will of God. Therefore, we need a guide, a director, a counselor who helps us to distinguish between the voice of God and all other voices coming from our own confusion or from dark powers far beyond our control.

We need someone who encourages us when we are tempted to give it all up, to forget it all, to just walk away in despair. We need someone who discourages us when we move too rashly in unclear directions or hurry proudly to a nebulous goal. We need someone who can suggest to us when to read and when to be silent, which words to reflect upon and what to do when silence creates much fear and little peace.


This post is excerpted from Reaching Out by Henri Nouwen.

Here is the link for The Henri Nouwen Society:  http://www.henrinouwen.org



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BE A MAN.

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Why going to church is bad for you

5/21/2013

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Men who struggle with sexual temptation are especially vulnerable at church.  One would think that church would be the one place a man could be safe and free from temptation.  Not so.  As the weather is warming, people are wearing more comfortable clothing.  Some of that clothing is fairly revealing, even in the church.

I was a camp counselor and we were having a great worship time with our preteen campers.  However, up front, two backup singers (they were camp counselors as well) were helping the worship leader by moving in time with the music (some people would call it choreography, others would call it dancing).  With their movement, certain body parts were also moving and it was very noticeable.  Being a normal  man, I was distracted from my worship by such movement.  Afterwards, I overheard a couple of the preteens boys in a discussion about how these two women looked.  It was obvious that I wasn't the only male that was stimulated...

Men whom I have counseled have told me similar stories.  They become stimulated, and some even become triggered by such activity in the church.   Their mind wanders away from worship and often this stimulation leads to physically acting out once they leave church.  Not only do some become triggered by viewing worship leaders but sometimes they also become stimulated by the way that some women dress in the church.  If they attend a church that "hugs," these men may also be triggered by such activity.

These men need the strength that comes with corporate worship but it often backfires for them.

How does a man who is addicted to sexual activity keep himself from becoming triggered when he goes to church?  This is an extremely difficult thing for such men to work thru.  There are no easy answers and it takes real work to follow thru with some of these ideas:

1 - Don't sit up front or where you can see the worship leaders
2 - Or sit close to the front behind a large person who will block your view (that way you won't see the women in the congregation nor the women up front)
3 - Close your eyes when you are singing
4 - Concentrate on the Creator rather than the creation
5 - Come late to the service so that you miss the worship time
6 - Consider going to a church that does not have such stimulating activity
7 - Sit with a male friend who knows of your struggles who will help you stay focused and not let you look around and who will pray for you while in church
8 - Talk to your pastor about your struggles and ask for assistance/ideas 
9 - Join an accountability group and be honest about your thoughts during church and also pray about your mutual struggles.

These ideas are very hard to do and take much prayer, much mental discipline and the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.  

The answer is not to just make sure that women dress correctly. In case you didn't know, in churches that have organs, many have a screen so that you cannot see the organist's feet.  This is done because it used to be too sensual for men to see the organist's naked foot.  So, policing what women in the church wear is not the answer.  

If you are a pastor, worship leader, or someone in a position of authority in your church, I would encourage you to spend some time thinking and praying about your church and what kinds of messages your church may send to people who struggle with sexual sin.    Ask God to give you wisdom so that your church is healthy and not a hindrance.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


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Computer or counseling:  Which is better?

5/13/2013

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"We're gonna put our money into a computer rather than marriage counseling."  This was a statement from a man with a rather troubled marriage.  "I don't think counseling is going to help us any.  We can spend time together in front of the computer and find good resources there."  I looked at his wife and she, in a rather pie-eyed fashion, gave her tacit permission towards her husband's solution to their many marriage troubles.  He proceeded with a rather lengthy story about how a new, more powerful computer, would be the solution not only to their family woes but also the difficulties in his marriage.  "We will gather around the computer as a family and make our computer a place of bonding, we'll become stronger if we invest in that rather than counseling."  I attempted to protest but he had won his wife over to his point of view.  They cancelled their remaining sessions and I never saw them again.

Do you think the computer helped this marriage?  A computer is amoral.  It is neither evil nor good.  It is what is done with the computer that brings in the morality.

I have been able to watch this man's behavior from a distance and unfortunately, his life has fallen apart.  His wife divorced him.  Several things transpired that she could not live with:  1) he used the computer for watching porn, 2) he used the computer to develop relationships with numerous women with whom he had affairs, 3) he was arrested for having sex with a patient, 4) he was also arrested for domestic violence and 5) he lost his medical license.  

The computer also affected his children.  One of his children became addicted to pornography (from the same computer), another was charged with sexual molestation and must now register as a sex offender for the rest of his life, the rest of his children have completely cut him off, wanting nothing to do with him.

I'm not saying that if they had continued in counseling that everything would have been perfect and these problems would not have occurred but I think it is ironic that the very thing he convinced his wife would solve all of their problems seriously contributed to his moral failure and the subsequent behavior of his family.  I'm also not saying that the computer was his main problem.  His main problem (in spite of claiming the name of Christian) was old-fashioned selfishness.  He was not allowing God to transform him.

I'm writing this to you to ask you a few questions:  

Into what are you pouring your time, energy and money?  
Have you convinced yourself that possessions will bring your happiness?  

Or have you invested your life into accountability, honest relationships and seeking God's will for your life?

God is very clear about His will:   It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.  Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.

I have heard that this man is now trying to repair the damage he has done and is trying again to live a life that is pleasing to God.  I find that encouraging.

Please pray for him.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.


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