20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.
21 Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.
All Scripture memory systems for children naturally begin with Colossians 3:20. It is no surprise that Paul would exhort children to, “obey your parents in everything.” Of course children must obey their parents.
The stunner is Paul’s word to Fathers. Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. In the first century, no-one tended to care too much about children becoming discouraged by their Fathers.
Why did Paul care about children? Because Jesus cared about children. Jesus cares about children because God cares about children.
13 Then people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked them.
14 Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
15 When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.
A child forms their primary image of who God is through the way they are parented. If a parent is harsh they will naturally, albeit unknowingly, assume God is harsh. If a parent is filled with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience a child will unknowingly assume this is what God is like. This makes parenting all at once the most practical and the most theological task in the world.
Here’s the bottom line for those of us who are presently parenting children. We can fool a lot of people a lot of the time, but we can’t fool our children. Whatever is in me will come out in my parenting. The surest way for my children to have a true sense of who the real God is and what the real God is like is for me to be a real Christian. Hence my chief responsibility as a Christian parent is to be a real Christian. And the only way I can be a real Christian is to be filled with all the fullness of God.
Abba Father, we thank you for your son, Jesus, in whom all your fullness is pleased to dwell. Thank you that we have been given fullness in him. Come Holy Spirit and awaken me to the reality of being filled with all the fullness of God, especially for the sake of all of our children. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.
This post was written by JD Walt of Seedbed. You can find his original post here: www.seedbed.com/what-parents-must-understand-about-parenting/