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9/24/2012

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Do all that you can to live at peace with everyone.  

We have settled into our new home.  Having terrific neighbors at our last home, I think that we are a little spoiled.  

Now we have a new house, new neighborhood and a new neighbors.  That means making new friends and experiencing life differently.

But, I have a confession.  

This post is written selfishly. 

 We need your prayers.  

I don't know what to do about our neighbors on one side.  

They have an automatic sprinkler system.  The sprinkler keeps our side yard wet, making it hard to catch a dry time to mow.  Also, one sprinkler hits one of our windows, causing it to be water spotted and needing to be cleaned often.  

Karyn asked them (very nicely)  to contact their sprinkler guy and have the one sprinkler adjusted.  The next day, the neighbor returned our house key (we had previously asked them to hold a key for us in an emergency).  I could be reading that behavior all wrong but it appeared that they didn't appreciate us asking them to adjust the sprinkler and expressed that by returning our house key.    We want to be good ambassadors for Christ and don't want to come across as nit picky but we just got tired of looking thru a water  spotted window.

What do we do?

I am reminded of a story in the book, Sit Walk Stand by Watchman Nee:

 "A brother in South China had a rice field in the middle of the hill.  In time of drought he used a water-wheel, worked by a tread-mill, to lift water from the irrigation stream into his field.  His neighbor had two fields before his, and, one night, make a breach in the dividing bank and drained all his water.  When the brother repaired the breach and pumped in more water his neighbor did the same thing again, and this was repeated three or four more times.  So he consulted his brethren. 'I have tried to be patient and not retaliate,' he said, 'but is it right?'  After they had prayed together about it, one of them replied, 'If we only try to do the right thing, surely we are very poor Christians.  We have to do something more than what is right.'  The brother was much impressed.  Next morning he pumped water for the two fields below, and in the afternoon pumped water for his own field.  After that the water stayed in his own field.  His neighbor was so amazed as the action that he began to inquire the reason and in course of time he too became a Christian."  

I think about that story because it involves water and there is a principle there that applies to our situation.  

Is it right to ask for a wrong to be righted?  

What behavior honors Christ and our neighbors?  

Our current plan is to continue to be nice to them and continue to strike up conversations when we are outside.  Also, we will continue to pray how to resolve this situation.

I know that there are plenty of world issues that are much bigger than this small little issue but we want to represent Christ well.  

So, when you read this today, would you take a few moments to pray for us?  

Ask that God would work so that our neighbors see Jesus in this situation.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.

9 Comments
Billy Birch link
9/24/2012 02:52:56

If I saw or knew that my sprinkler was hitting my neighbor's window (let alone the side yard, keeping it wet), I would have taken action *before* having to be asked. But that's just me -- hating to be an imposition. So, I don't think you both were out of line in asking they inquire as to how to fix the situation.

I prayed, as you asked. I look forward to an update with positive results. God bless.

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Sharilyn DeCrastos
9/24/2012 02:57:00

We are praying for the NEW transition. We would have done the same thing. It is so hard, we have a similiar situation, Neighbors never mow the yard. Rick tries to show JESUS and do it, but he doesn't want to make it a habit as they need to be accountable for their own responsibilities. We get a wave once in a while, but we pray daily they see Jesus in our every day life. Keep on being the "good" neighbor. Over time, the sprinkler issue will become a NON issue! :)

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Dave Allen
9/24/2012 03:21:45

Keep cleaning the spots away and make that a time of prayer for the situation. I would not mention it again untill you become friends.

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drwayman link
9/24/2012 03:50:56

Billy & Sharilyn - Thank you for your prayers. I am confident of a positive outcome.

Dave - Thanks for the suggestion. Since I know your character and know that you are a man of integrity, I know that you are giving wonderful advice. I appreciate it :-)

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Karyn
9/24/2012 04:07:28

Obviously it's about more than the spots, as I do NOT clean them off often. The bigger point is that our side yard is like a swamp. In the summer, it was warm enough to dry it out. Not now. And that is the side where our faucet is located, so to get to where we can use the faucet we have to get muddy.

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Cheri
9/24/2012 05:28:28

I don't feel you did anything wrong in mentioning the sprinkler. I would want to know if my sprinkler were causing a problem (and would be mortified if I learned it were)! Sorry you have to get muddy every time you need to turn your sprinkler on; that's a drag. But it won't be for much longer this year and maybe things will be different in the spring. New lawn guy, maybe? Never know how God will answer these prayers!!

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bjw
9/24/2012 06:16:32

Our neighborhood ALL have wooden fences in between.
But despite that, the lawn sprinkler flooded our west side in front of the fence.... had to dodge when to put trash in.. I mentioned they were wasting water. Well the thing stopped or they stopped it.. after a while... We'd decided it might be a good place to put a garden!! ("Make lemonade")

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bjw
9/24/2012 06:17:33

"'WON'T YOU BE MY NEIGHBOR" .. Not all are ready... :-)

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Landon DeCrastos
9/24/2012 10:34:39

I will be praying. This concept is something I have reflected about as well.

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