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2015 in review:  A blogger's favorites

1/4/2016

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2015.  They are listed by month and are my favorites of this blog.   See if you agree.

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

​January 2015 - Don't be holy in theory only.  This post by my friend, The Seeking Disciple, reminds us to pray to God that He would empower us to holiness (1 Thessalonians 5:23-24).  Oh for holiness to be preached in the power of the Holy Spirit!

February 2015 - Teaching Tithing.  This personal post discusses how I taught by son about tithing.  

March 2015 - Mental telepathy and Christianity.  This personal post discusses my personal interaction with a married missionary couple who claimed they could read each other's mind.  

April 2015 - Just Jesus and me at the Crucifixion.  This personal post discusses how God spoke to me during my participation in the an Easter Musical.  

May 2015 - The gospel according to my brother.  This post is by my pastor, Rev DeCrastos.  His brother explains to him "The presence of weeds, tells us our needs."

June 2015 - Setting guardrails in life.  This personal post is about the dangers of Facebook and other possible dangers in life.

July 2015 - Is P.O.D. justified in using the "F" word? This personal post is about how the use of the "F" word may be appropriate in certain instances.

August 2015 - Why teen girls are having sex earlier.  This post was reprinted at the request of a wife of one of our Ironstrikes men.  The title gives you an idea of what the post is about.

September 2015 - A conversation about swearing.  This personal post duplicates a conversation about swearing from a theological discussion room on Facebook.

October 2015 - The Great American Novel.  This personal post is about the song made famous by Larry Norman.

November 2015 - Teenager arrested in murder of pastor's wife.  This post is about a tragic event that happened here in Indianapolis.  

December 2015 - Bible stories for strong stomachs.  I review this wonderful book by family friend, Dr Barry Callen.  You will want to purchase and read it.  




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2014 in Review:  A blogger's favorites

12/31/2014

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2014.  They are listed by month and are my favorites of this blog.   See if you agree.

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

January 2014 - Are you bearing a cross? - This true post is about an over-worked missionary who ended up in the hospital.

February 2014 - Heavenly drinking - This post is about my experience in trying to be a part of a bar ministry.   

March 2014 - You don't need a sword - This post is about the amazing power that Jesus has available to Him.

April 2014 - What makes a fool a fool? - The biblical definition of a fool is not simply a matter of intellectual embrace of concepts.  It has everything to do with whether one lives as a responsive, loving child of God in a world filled with God' beloved creatures.

May 2014 - Hugging:  Helping children behave - This Adlerian parenting principle posits that children need more nurturance from the adults in their lives.

June 2014 - Shine for Him! - You can be assured that when God made you, He knew what He was doing.  When you stand before God in eternity, it is only His opinion that will matter.  So, why are you waiting around on the mountain top or in the deepest ocean waiting for somebody to see you before you shine?  

July 2014 - The silent treatment - This post written by Drs Les & Leslie Parrott cautions that using the silent treatment in marriage is manipulative, disrespectful and non-productive.

August 2014 - The sin of being good -  This post written by Rev Erik Cooper speaks to the sin of trying to earn our own righteousness.

September 2014 - What porn does to intimacy - This secular piece of research from Psychology Today notes "Pornography is not as benign as you think, especially when it comes to romantic relationships."

October 2014 - A safer world than before - Dr Howard Snyder posits that the world is actually getting safer.  He concludes, "Let’s not buy into the popular pseudo-Christian myth that our world is inevitably and irredeemably going to the dogs. The gospel is more powerful than that."

November 2014 - Excitement about heaven - This personal post may be too heavenly minded to be of any earthly good....

December 2014 - The real St. Nicholas - This well-researched biography of St Nicholas clears up any misconceptions of what this man was truly like.

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.




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2014 in Review:  Reader's favorites

12/30/2014

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2014.  They are listed by month and are the favorites by readers of this blog.   

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

January 2014:  A Caution for Alcohol Drinking Christians -  The debate about Christians drinking continues to be in the forefront of readers' minds.

February 2014:  The Facebook Predator - A Caution for Dads -  This true story of a young woman who was fooled by a sexual predator offers cautions for fathers in protecting their daughters.

March 2014:   Does a Rigid View of God Cause Problems - This blog post considers the dangers of Christians viewing things in black and white.

April 2014:  Why 8 in 10 Don't Attend Church - Readers considered the church's responsibility to families that have children with disabilities. 

May 2014:  To Drink or Not To Drink -  This article by a local pastor considered reasons for Christians to drink alcohol as well as reasons not to.  Evidently, Christians continue to be interested in this topic.

June 2014:   6 Things Pastors are Tired of Hearing - Our pastor, Rev DeCrastos writes an honest post about things that irritate pastors.

July 2014:   Your Porn Habit is Adultery - This hard hitting blog post clearly shows the connection between porn and adultery.    Viewing pornography is clearly sinful behavior.

August 2014:  9 Reasons Why People Aren't Singing in Church - This was the most overall popular blog post by readers for the year.  It seems that there is a paradigm shift in worship music in church.  This post discusses how some people view worship as a spectator sport.

September 2014:  "Christian" Swinging???? - This post debunks a Christian couple who promote marital swinging as a way to grow spiritually.  

October 2014:  Why I am a Nazarene - This is the second most popular post of the year.  It explores the reasons why being affiliated with the Church of the Nazarene is a good thing.

November 2014:  10 Reasons Why Men Should Not Be Ordained - This tongue-in-cheek blog post pokes fun at the concept that God only calls men to ordination.  


December 2014:  Why I've Stopped Singing in Your Church - We conclude the year with another post on how modern worship songs have become popular in the church and offers suggestions of how to change this trend.


BE HOLY.
BE A MAN. 




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2013 in Review:  A blogger's favorites

1/3/2014

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2012.  They are listed by month and are my favorites of this blog.   See if you agree.

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:


January 2013 - How do I know when it's God's voice? - "How do I know when it's God talking to me or the devil?"  This is a question that I get quite a bit in my correspondence and conversations with people.

February 2013 - 89-years-young -  Today, my Father turns the young age of 89...

March 2013 - Dead spiders - It is possible to have perfect intent.   But how does one achieve such?  How does one become a slave to righteousness?

April 2013 - What is your prayer life like? - Do I pray rightly or do I just pray to ward off anxiety, kind of routinely without really understanding what I am doing?  Has my prayer life developed in a healthy fashion?

May 2013 - Racism - Am I part of the problem? - Later, upon reflection of this interaction, I thought to myself, "There I went and did it again.  I came off as a racist."

June 2013 - Can people really change? - "Dear Lord, in case you didn't know, he's right upstairs!  You need to do something about him!  My daughter says she loves him.  Can't she see how mean and abusive he is?  He does drugs and is going to take her with him!  God, you've gotta do something!" 

July 2013 - Choosing intimacy - We've been married 29 years and over the years I've struggled with this question, "Did God make Karyn just for me and me for her?"  I haven't asked this question out of doubt of our love for each other, I have asked it out of a genuineness of wondering about God's compassionate care for people.  Is there always someone God has planned for someone?  

August 2013 - Toenail suckin' frogs - Part One and Two - "Well, if he gets on my toe, I'm gonna take a stick and beat on him until he lets go."  I said, "oooh, you don't wanna do that.  That just makes them mad.  You don't want a mad toenail suckin' frog latched onto your toe.  It would be better to just kinda pretend he's not there and let him eat your toenail and then he will leave you alone." 

September 2013 - The God of Elijah - Part One and Two - On January 9th, we were outside preaching.  Brother Wu with some others were in one part of the village and suddenly asked publicly:  "Why will none of you believe?"  Someone in the crowd replied at once, "What have a god -- one god -- Ta-wang (Great King), and he has never failed us.  He is an effective god."



October 2013 - Sexual dreaming - How does one handle sexual dreams?  Often they are not under our conscious control.  So, are we responsible for our dreams?  Are we responsible for our acting out sexually when aroused by a dream?  How does one stay pure, even while sleeping?


November 2013 - Am I a subtle elitist? - I was in a small group from our church and we were praying for these new people.  I was struck by a thought that I am sure came from God.  I remember thinking, "you don't really believe that these new Christians are gonna make it, do you?" 


December 2013 - Do you practice sin in your life? (part one and two) - This is a greek study of Galatians 5:19-21.


BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.

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2013 in Review:  Readers' favorites

1/2/2014

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2012.  They are listed by month and are the favorites by readers of this blog.   

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

January 2013 - But I'm Right! - After almost 30 years of marriage I think we have made some progress in our communication.  Let me tell you about a disagreement that we recently experienced in our marriage.  

February 2013 - Chastity vs Virginity - The summer after the sixth grade I went to one of those Christian summer camps, one with workshops on various topics throughout the week. On one of the days there was a workshop on relationships, a.k.a. the sex talk day (strange how the two are often seen as the same thing in Christian circles).

March 2013 - Boys at School - Boys score as well as or better than girls on most standardized tests, yet they are far less likely to get good grades, take advanced classes or attend college. 

April 2013 - Men don't sing in church anymore - It happened again yesterday. I attended one of those hip, contemporary churches — and almost no one sang. 

May 2013 - How to pray like a man - Have you ever noticed that Christians speak normally to one another, but when they speak to aloud to God they lapse into a strange language and tone? I call this “prayer-speak” and it’s epidemic in evangelical churches today.

June 2013 - The God who is Sovereign - The following is a conversation that recently took place in my daughter’s middle school group. And I think it does a good job highlighting three mistakes that we often make when we talk about the sovereignty of God and how it relates to sin and suffering in the world.

July 2013 - Worship problems - So let it be clear: I am not against music or musicians when it comes to the Christian experience.  Quite the contrary; music can be a powerful part of the worship experience.  But, I believe we have some big problems when it comes to music in many churches today.


August 2013 - How individualism is killing worship (this was the reader's favorite for the year) - So you’re sitting in church, happy for the break. You’ve just stood for 20 minutes straight while the praise band played, “I could sing of your love forever.” It felt like forever, you think to yourself.

September 2013 - The truth about my church and others - The following are the 7 things that you should expect when taking the step to become a leader or generally involved in this worship community….these things are universal and can be applied to any other church.

October 2013 - Allowing child molesters into church -  There are three important factors to consider in regard to those who have a history of molesting children.

November 2013 - What happens when you skip church - When a church member misses worship service, the church drastically suffers.The Bible is emphatic about church attendance.

December 2013 - Why I volunteer in the church nursery - There are times that I have seen men volunteer in the church nursery.  When I see men volunteering, it really encourages me as men have a vital role to play in the development of children.  

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.

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2012 in review:  A blogger's favorites

1/1/2013

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2012.  They are listed by month and are my favorites.  See if you agree.  

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

January 2012 - JESUS WOULD NEVER DO THAT! - "There is an important concept to be learned here.  Did you know that what you do to yourself, you do to Jesus? "

February 2012 - NOW FOR SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL - "I want to tell you that the man that was weeping was so much more of a man than many men I have ever met."

March 2012 - AW, COME ON, NOBODY'S PERFECT - "Jesus tells us that we are to be perfect as He is perfect.   However, being human, it is impossible to be perfect.  What do you think Jesus meant by this statement?"

April 2012 - MAYBE WE SHOULDN'T WALK DOWN THAT STREET - "The Beaver was just sent money from his rich uncle for his birthday.  Beaver signed for it at the post office and his parents didn't know that he had the money."

May 2012 - CHOOSING BETWEEN PERSONAL INTEGRITY AND A WOMAN'S HONOR - "I said to her, "what would you like me to do?"  She responded, "when we get back to the hotel (we were all staying at the same hotel), could you walk me to my room?"

June 2012 - THE GIRLS' VOLLEYBALL COACH -  "He was an interesting man.  Kinda like his world revolved only around his own interests, hardly ever thinking of others.  He brought with him his sketch book as he liked to draw.  As he showed me the various pictures, he carefully and in detail described each of his drawings."

July 2012 - ESAU REDEEMED - "God can never be put into a box.  When you think that a story is over or God has done all He can do in a situation, He reminds you that He has plans for us that we could never think, dream or even imagine."

August 2012 - ICHABOD - ON LEAVING A CHURCH - "For the next few Sundays, it became increasingly difficult to attend.  Other board members would hardly speak with me, friends that I had in the church no longer acted like friends.    As this was a church in a denomination in which I was raised, this was difficult and I needed a firm answer from God if I was to stay or leave."

September 2012 - WHAT ABOUT MY TROPHY? - "One of the many things I like about God is His ability to speak to a person, especially when it is least expected."

October 2012 - WHY GOD DOESN'T ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS - "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers."

November 2012 - WHAT IS YOUR GOAL? - "It was kind of a surreal experience....   We had just arrived at our mission in Quito and here I was less than 48 hours later standing at the graveside of a man I didn't know and hadn't even met."

December 2012 - CHRISTMAS IN ECUADOR - "20 Christmases ago, when our boys were young, we had a missionary assignment in Quito, Ecuador.  One Christmas in Ecuador was especially memorable."

BE HOLY.
BE A MAN.  

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2012 in review:  Readers favorites

12/31/2012

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I have listed here the top 12 posts by month for the year 2012.  They are listed by the number of likes by readers.  For the year 2013, I am taking suggestions for blog posts.  Feel free to send me your suggestions to [email protected] or place them in the comments section.

A few sentences from each post gives you an idea of what the post is about.  Click on the title to go to the post:

January 2012 - MAKING MEN - "Raising boys has its own special challenges.  I was fortunate enough to have two sons who have grown into godly men.  They are excellent sons and husbands, men of whom I can be proud."

February 2012 - THE MAN I MOST ADMIRE - "Why do I admire my father more than any other man?  He lives as a consistent Christian witness.  He makes being a Christian admirable and respectable.  He makes Jesus attractive by living a consistent Christian life.  There is no phoniness about him.  He doesn't say one thing and do another."  

March 2012 - IT COULD HAVE BEEN ME - "I have a good Christian friend who fell into sexual sin this past weekend.  I'm very depressed about it.  His behavior was wrong and unacceptable.  He has admitted his sinful behavior and is seeking guidance and healing and restitution for the person that he victimized.  He will have to register as a sex offender and face how the public will now treat him."

April 2012 - TIM TEBOW AND THE MILLION DOLLAR SEX HIT - " I'm disgusted about Tim Tebow.  I'm not disgusted with him, I'm proud of him and his example as a man, a real man.  I'm disgusted that a $1,000,000 hit has been placed on his head.  A website that encourages affairs and lascivious living has stated that $1,000,000 will be awarded to anyone who can come up with real evidence that Tebow is not a virgin."

May 2012 - STEPS THAT LEAD TO AN AFFAIR -  "There are twelve common steps that usually occur in sequence as a relationship moves toward an adulterous affair.  These steps often occur over a long period of time, but a man and a woman can move thru these stages of an affair in a single evening.  Becoming aware of the steps helps us to recognize what might be happening to us so we can stop the process before we are in over our heads."

June 2012 - THE ANTI-SOCIAL RELIGIOUS BAD BOY -  "The anti-social bad boy places high value on being tough, thick-skinned and powerful.  He wants people to fear him.  You may look at that statement and ask, "come on, we could spot this guy a mile away, there's no way he could be a church leader!"  

July 2012 - EVEN SOUL WINNING IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR SALVATION - "The Church in my parts was shocked to learn recently that a brother who has been trained by a prominent evangelism group to the point that he was flying to California to participate in helping train others how to share the gospel with the lost and he was often found in various local churches teaching people how to share their faith, he was arrested for sexual molestation of various women in his practice and was found guilty by the court and sent to prison leaving behind a devastated wife and young children to take care of themselves."

August 2012 - MY FIRST RECOLLECTION OF GOD TALKING TO ME - "I remember when I was about 5-years-old being outside playing with an ant hill.  I had a water hose and flooded the ant hill.  As I saw ants pouring out, some of them would gather into small pools and just lay there.  I started to feel some compassion and put a stick in some of the small pools so that the ants could walk on it to dry land.  I remember hearing inside my head, “do you want to try to save yourself or are you going to let Me save you?” "

September 2012 - THE SOCIAL COSTS OF PORN -  "Pornography is tearing apart the fabric of our society. You may think this is an overstatement. After reading,“The Social Costs of Pornography” by the Witherspoon Institute, I think it may be an understatement."  (This is the most liked post of the 2012 year)

October 2012 - HONORING YOUR WIFE FINANCIALLY - "You've got to work hard. You’ve got to out-work the other men if you want to feed your family. That’s your responsibility as a man. If you want any men to respect you, if you want your wife to respect you, if you want your children to respect you, you pay the bills. You make the money, you feed the family."

November 2012 - CHASING BOYS FROM CHURCH - "Bob raised three boys. His wife took them to Sunday school every week. Vacation Bible School was a highlight of their summer. She drove the lads back and forth to youth group. They sacrificed time and money to send their boys to Christian camps. Bob even helped finance a mission trip to Mexico. Today, Bob's sons are young adults. Not one of them goes to church. There’s no sign of a relationship with Jesus Christ."

December 2012 - NO MORE MALENESS AT THE UNIVERSITY - "A political science professor at Butler University asks students to disregard their “American-ness, maleness, whiteness, heterosexuality, middle-class status” when writing and speaking in the classroom – a practice the school’s arts and sciences dean defended as a way to negate students’ inherent prejudices."

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BE A MAN.

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